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sunny spring flowersIt seems like the weeks since Easter have been unusually busy for me.  How about you? I’m wondering how much of this is related to the late date of Easter?  Easter was about as late as it can possibly get this year.  For one thing, Mothers Day and college graduation season fell only two weeks after Easter, a potentially stressful conjunction of big events.  At Community Wesleyan, global partners (missions) emphasis which usually fits comfortably between Easter and Mother’s Day, now was shoehorned into an already busy May as well.   

My parents and grandparents, passing down the wisdom of generations of farm families, had a saying that if Easter was late, spring would also be late. That certainly has been truly here in Syracuse this year. As a gardner, this has also added to the busyness of late April and early May. Tilling that was done in mid-April in past years could not be done until the first May. Lettuce, radishes, spinach, and peas have often been planted in April but this year are being planted in May.   At least we didn’t start mowing the lawn until the first week in May.

As I reflect on it, a late Easter was nice for having crocuses and tulips out to adorn the season.  I also enjoyed the longer winter sermon series it allowed.  But I’m not sure I like the time crunch that has followed. I still think the ideal time for Easter celebration is the second Sunday in April.  But since it’s not up to you and me anyway, I guess we’ll just have to take it as it comes and remember that God’s grace is sufficient for everyday!   Sometimes I need to be reminded of my favorite verse, “And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work” (2 Co 9:8 NIV).  

I have been thinking recently about those people who are very depressed in deep winter and find that time seems to crawl by.   Well, I’m not a great fan of winter myself.  My favorite hobbies are things like gardening, bird-watching, trombone-playing, canoeing, and hiking.  I like to throw in a couple rounds of golf and a trout fishing trip.   As you can see, all but one are summer things and even the community band I’m in for playing trombone takes January off.   So how can we make January go by faster and add a little joy in the process?   Here are my suggestions.

1.   Find a January-friendly hobby or two.

  
My wife and I start doing jigsaw puzzles after the Christmas rush and keep doing them until spring.  With the help of folks who stop by, we may complete 10-15 of them before we quit and wait til the next January.   We use mostly the same puzzles with just a couple new ones added that friends give us or we buy each year. 
My wife took up a new musical instrument this year – folk harp.   She had just a few lessons before playing a couple carols at our Christmas Eve service.  Now she is using some of these cold January nights to improve her skill.  They say learning a new instrument is great for brain development too.  

2.   Spend more time with those you love.

In addition to the puzzles, JoAnne and I try to spend some evenings playing board games (Sequence)  during January.  Once in a while I will watch an old Star Trek with her (she’s a real Trekie).

3.   Invite feathered friends to your place.

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JoAnne and I still very much enjoy Christmas cards.  We send them and we like to receive them too.    Most of the cards we receive are refreshingly beautiful too.  We’re one of those couples who write the annual Christmas letter, now complete with color pictures, and copy it onto Christmas stationery to include in our cards.   We do this because we know how we are disappointed when we open a card from an old friend only to find nothing inside but a signature, perhaps even a pre-printed one. 

Cards feature Christmas pictures

 

   It’s a retro thing, I guess.   Christmas cards just seem a little more personal than the e-touch.  They also fit with the season; email happens all the time.  We’ve experimented with moving our letter to email and saving all that money on stamps.   That works, I suppose, but it just doesn’t have the same feel.   I came from a home where we hung the Christmas cards around the wide hallway entrance to the old parlor.  There were always enough of them to go all the way up one side across the top and down the other side.  As I think back on it, it was like our family Christmas was surrounded by extended family.  It was shared in some small way by a life-time collection of friends and loved ones.   So JoAnne and I have returned to more cards and less email. 

We also have kept track of many friends over the years through our Christmas cards.  Many friends we have only written once each year, but that communication opened the way for a visit, or a longer letter, or a phone call or email conversation at a later time.   Some very good friends we were sad to lose track of because they moved or did not return our cards.   Sometimes, by perseverance we would find a good address again through a mutual friend. 

We always try to pick cards that focus the true meaning of Christmas and include verses of Scripture.  It is one more way to help us remember the first Christmas and our reason to celebrate; and to share that focal point with our friends and family too.

Thanksgiving Blessings

At our extended family Thanksgiving dinner for the Jones clan yesterday, I received a couple really neat ideas for young families.

1. My niece, Pat, and her family who hosted this year and did a great job, have a tradition called the Thanksgiving box. Each year, each member of the family writes down the thing or things they are most thankful for on a piece of paper with their name and the year. Then they put it in a special box labeled “The Thanksgiving Box” and save it. Then in following years, if the family wishes, they can look at what each person gave thanks for.   It provides a kind of family history of Thanksgiving.

2. My nephew, Doug, and his family have a different variation on the same idea. They have a designated Thanksgiving tablecloth that is only used on Thanksgiving. Each year they get out markers and each family member writes on the tablecloth what they are thankful for.   Then they have Thanksgiving dinner using that tablecloth.   This idea sounds like a real children’s delight to me.  

I thought these were wonderful ideas to help children participate in the true meaning of the Thanksgiving holiday and build family togetherness at the same time. .