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Our Celebration Theme and Logo

After our fun celebration, I began thinking, “Why is it important to celebrate?  Are there good reasons besides the fun?”   I remembered immediately that God must have thought it was important as he taught the OT people to set aside time for feasting and rejoicing.   Now, in the glow of our big weekend, I can see some of the reasons.

Celebration motivates people to volunteer and identify with the cause.

The energy of the occasion is catching.  People like to be a part of a good purpose in a way that is immediate and tangible.  Helping out at a celebration provides a positive emotional feedback to the volunteer, especially when coupled with appropriate appreciation from those being helped.   Volunteering in turn helps the volunteer to feel more a part of the organization that they helped.  

Celebration generates creativity.

We found that the combination of workers thinking together and the challenge of a focused task that they strongly believed in generated much creativity.   All kinds of new ideas were spawned in the past few months and many of them were used.   One of the biggest examples was the sanctuary makeover.  The idea of preparing for the future helped set a climate for change.   The creative idea of dividing the front wall between paint and paneling instead of all paneling was accepted by a huge majority.  The new design’s decorative flexibility became evident at the 50th as the background of the cross became purple to complement the purple and gold color scheme of the celebration.  Enlarging the vestibule and moving the doors to the center created an entrance so natural that it seems like it always should have been like that.   For another example, we had done slide shows before on the big screen but never with the music embedded and narration overlaid.   Anne Kipping and JoAnne Jones went as far as they could and then called in Josh Basile to put it all together.  A third example was the spontaneous recreation of the church sign landscaping by Cindy Centner and Vicki Hilliges.   All these examples made it obvious that creativity just happens as we celebrate.

Celebration calls forth profound praise to God.

Sometimes our praises seem rather ordinary, habitual and dutiful.   That’s certainly much superior to a lack of praise, but there is more.  

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Our Celebration Theme and Logo

 

What a great weekend we have enjoyed here at Community Wesleyan.   There was a tremendous joy evident in all the events.   Beginning with the hugs of surprise reunions at the parsonage open house, continuing amid the happy chatter of the delightfully fancy Meet N’ Greet reception, and throughout the service of thanksgiving on Saturday evening, joy abounded.   Looking back, I’m so glad we added the Saturday events.   I estimate at least 120 enjoyed the praise and thanksgiving time.   It gave much more time to peruse the meticulously collected photo albums and bulletin boards telling our church’s story.  It also gave time to try to guess who went with which baby pictures.  I wonder if anyone guessed that early grade school picture was me.  I also think it added greatly to the anticipation of Sunday.  

Sunday’s Celebration events were climactic in every way.   The coffee and cookie time was grander than ever and enjoyed by many.      In service, who can forget the heart for winning others to Jesus of our aging founding pastor, Rev. Tom Boghosian as he urged us on.  The music was stirring especially the rousing chorus of “Look What the Lord Has Done,”   the grand piano, organ and reunion choir rendition of “To God Be the Glory,”  the Sign Choir’s moving “Yesterday, Today, Forever,” the bell choir’s fresh reminder, “He’s Got the Whole World In His Hands”, and Dave Schwarz’s challenge with “Find Us Faithful.”   Like our two services, the celebration was a mix of traditional and contemporary elements.   At the suggestion of Dick Rugar, we used this day to also receive new members, of whom he was one.  Another one, Nancy Collins, gave her testimony.  A very well put together slide show summarized our church’s history and ministry very well.  District Superintendent Wayne Wager Sr.’s message on Jubilee, a Time to Realign was both a warning and an encouragement to us to take advantage of this crucial time in our history to seek the kind of renewal that will return us to our original passion for souls. 

What a blessing also to hear Pastor Eric’s official announcement that our goal of 50 ministries in the past 30 months had been exceeded.   We praise God for enabling this.   And since we want that spirit to continue, we hope many will send out one of the special postcards we made.  That is our next outreach and service ministry.   

In hindsight, one of the wisest decisions we made was to use a caterer and have the dinner at church.  The turnout was tremendous. The downstairs was arranged to seat about 220 and some seats were used twice.   The program was fun yet helped us reflect on the history of our church.   The reminisces from former pastors Wolfe and Crandall and testimonies from Fran Filmer and Steven Sgroi gave us good perspectives too.  JoAnne’s song, “Keep the Flame Burning” that we sang at the close of both the service and the dinner program seemed to sum it all up so well.  

There are so many to thank for making it all possible.   Pastor Wager was impressed with the planning we had done.  I was personally blessed by all those who pitched in the last few days to put on finishing touches.   There were set-up volunteers swarming the place for days ahead.   Volunteers worked on at least 4 picture related projects constantly during that last week.   Gardeners totally redid the church sign garden.  People were practicing music and sign and bells whenever they could find a spot to do so.   Then after it was all over, volunteers were cleaning up for hours.   I say a heartfelt thank you to everyone who helped bring it all together.

Thanksgiving brings Joy

I’ve been reflecting more about Thanksgiving and thinking about all its benefits. I have observed something as I have read what my friends and acquaintances have written on Facebook.    Those who have been actively giving thanks seem very happy and joyful.   While I’m sure it is true that when one is joyful, it is easy to also be thankful, I believe the opposite is also true. When one disciplines themselves to be thankful, even when circumstances are contrary, joy rises inside and surprises us.   The more we give thanks, the happier we seem to be.  So it is not an accident that those giving thanks are also bubbling with joy. 

Thanksgiving encourages faith

This leads to a second salutary effect of Thanksgiving– a positive outlook.  As we count our blessings, enumerating the people, circumstances, and things for which we are thankful, our outlook toward the future becomes much more sanguine. When our focus is on the good things that have already happened, it is easier to expect more of the same.  Sincere Thanksgiving to God leads to growing optimism and greater faith in God.

Family togetherness

Another major value of the Thanksgiving holiday is its emphasis upon family togetherness.  In the entire year, only Christmas outranks Thanksgiving in magnetism for drawing families together.   Witness the traffic on this weekend both on the ground and in the air, and you see demonstrated the desire of people to be with loved ones on Thanksgiving.   How wonderful it is to have this holiday, one big feature of which is helping to bring families together.   There is so much in our culture that pulls in the opposite direction. Thanksgiving reminds us of the value of family, both nuclear family and extended family.

Generosity

In addition to these, Thanksgiving spurs generosity and charity.  People are moved to contribute to food pantries, church turkey giveaways, etc. because they are thinking about how God has been so good to them and they want to share. This is an attitude that we should have all year long.  Hopefully, such actions help make Thanksgiving a time of blessing for the poor also, as it should be.  

So when I think of the holidays of the year, Thanksgiving rates high on my list–just behind Christmas and Easter. 

 

My wife and I so much enjoy walking at Green Lakes State Park. Green Lakes is such a gift to all of us.   Monday morning was a beautiful early fall day for such a walk.  Yes, I know it was technically still summer, but here in Kirkville the feel definitely changed to fall a week or so ago.   The smell in the air, the crisp mornings with fog hanging over the corn field across the road from my house, the alternation of clear blue days and soggy gray ones; all tell us that it is September.      

Walking and praying go together

Even though Monday was perfect for walking, not many people were out so I was mostly left to my own thoughts.  I love to pray aloud as I walk and I did.  Holding a conversation with God while meandering on a woodland trail is refreshing at multiple levels.  I’m relaxing;  I’m breathing fresh air; I’m getting some exercise.  I’m also unloading my cares to God and listening for his Spirit’s still small voice of counsel in return.   I’m participating in the spiritual work of intercession for others too.   There’s something about being out in nature that rejuvenates us all.  There’s something about personal times of prayer that does the same.   Doing both together is like working a team of horses, the result is more powerful than the sum of the parts. 

I’m a nature observer

Another joy of Green Lakes hikes are the nature observations.  Being a bird watcher, I’m always on the lookout for rarer birds, especially pileated woodpeckers which are not really rare at Green Lakes.   I didn’t see one Monday, only a hairy woodpecker.  But, this past summer I saw a male scarlet tanager, one of the few times I have seen one of those in my life.   However, it is not just birds that get my attention;  I also look at the ferns, the fish, and the fungi among other things.   Okay, so I’m a nature nut. I have numerous guide books and sometimes actually look at them too.  I prefer to think of myself as simply a good observer. 

 

Summer Joy

One of the true joys of summer for me is growing daylilies.   They don’t require a lot of care and they reward me with many blooms, each one lasting only one day.   When I spoke about that detail in my sermon one Sunday, I was surprised how few people realized it.   I guess we are so used to mums and dahlias, orchids and even African violets whose flowers last for a week or even weeks that the idea of a flower lasting only one day seems strange.   But as I mentioned that Sunday, the fact that the bouquet in my garden is different every day gives it an invigorating charm.  I go out looking for the new blossoms every day that I can.   The light patterns, the dew on the blossoms, critters hiding or not all add to the interest.

Collecting too

I have developed a little of a collectors mentality about it too with over 30 varieties now.   I have some daylilies just because they are odd—one blooms at night, another that I just planted is unusually tall, another is a double named Yellow Submarine.   Some are fragrant.   Several are spider daylilies, which means they have narrow petals rather than usual fuller round ones.   Some varieties have ruffled edges.  Colors range from a very dark maroon – inherited from Grandma Isaman–to a white one I bought called Nanuq.   I seem to prefer the orange and gold hues, though I have some striking red and yellow mixes now that will almost take your breath away.   Except for the picture of me visiting Grace Gardens, all the daylilies in the slides are from my garden.

Grandma got me started

When I was a boy, my Grandma, Jessie Isaman would pay us boys for helping her pull the quack grass from her large flower garden.   Her garden featured eight or ten different dayliles among the many other perennials and I grew to love their annual display.  Grandma died the same year I became a pastor, and my Mom encouraged me to take a small division from most of her daylilies with me when I moved to my first parsonage in Bentley Creek, PA.   I built a tiered daylily garden in the back and the daylily clumps grew well.   When I moved to Kirkville, I took part of each clump, threw them in a crate and stuffed it in the tractor trailer with my household goods.  Later that summer I unpacked the crate, planted the brown clumps and every one grew.  So I have most of my Grandma’s daylilies as the beginning of my collection.   One of them, Frans Hall, is still sold today.  Another is a fragrant yellow that I think is as fragrant as any newer cultivar I have.

 

Sunday on Father’s Day, between our two services we had the joy of baptizing Eric Moon and Jerry Mercier by immersion.   Eric’s testimony of being influenced to turn his life around and follow Christ by his father’s example, brought tears to our eyes.   Jerry’s testimony of God’s gracious intervention and answers to prayer brought assurance to all of us of God’s tender care.   Personally, being a part of Jerry’s baptism was a double blessing to me as Jerry has become one of my Wednesday morning prayer partners and a dear friend because of it.

Testifying to our faith through the tradition of believer baptism has a history going back into the New Testament itself.  Jesus instructed his disciples to use baptism as a mark as they enrolled people as his followers (Matt. 28:19).   In his Pentecost sermon, Peter encouraged people to be baptized (Acts 2:38).     Saul who is usually called Paul was baptized shortly after his conversion (Acts 9:18).  While the Wesleyan Church does not require immersion style baptism as we did last Sunday for believers, we use it whenever possible because the symbolism (as described in Romans 6) is the most complete.

What a joy to celebrate with Eric and Jerry as they obeyed Jesus direction.   Our prayers are with them as they seek to live day by day as disciples of Christ.

 

 

I wrote the first version of this some years ago for our church newsletter at our first church.  Each year as the lawns turn green again after the winter’s destruction, I am reminded of it.   I thought it might be a word of encourgement to someone so I edited it and am publishing it.    Here is the link:

http://www.kirkvillewesleyan.org/pastorsdesk/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Parable-on-a-Winter-Brown-Lawn.pdf

I have been thinking recently about those people who are very depressed in deep winter and find that time seems to crawl by.   Well, I’m not a great fan of winter myself.  My favorite hobbies are things like gardening, bird-watching, trombone-playing, canoeing, and hiking.  I like to throw in a couple rounds of golf and a trout fishing trip.   As you can see, all but one are summer things and even the community band I’m in for playing trombone takes January off.   So how can we make January go by faster and add a little joy in the process?   Here are my suggestions.

1.   Find a January-friendly hobby or two.

  
My wife and I start doing jigsaw puzzles after the Christmas rush and keep doing them until spring.  With the help of folks who stop by, we may complete 10-15 of them before we quit and wait til the next January.   We use mostly the same puzzles with just a couple new ones added that friends give us or we buy each year. 
My wife took up a new musical instrument this year – folk harp.   She had just a few lessons before playing a couple carols at our Christmas Eve service.  Now she is using some of these cold January nights to improve her skill.  They say learning a new instrument is great for brain development too.  

2.   Spend more time with those you love.

In addition to the puzzles, JoAnne and I try to spend some evenings playing board games (Sequence)  during January.  Once in a while I will watch an old Star Trek with her (she’s a real Trekie).

3.   Invite feathered friends to your place.

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Christmas at Gramdma's

What brings joy at Christmas?   It’s not just one thing.  It’s a combination of many.

Family get-togethers

We started the season early, heading out to Keely’s and Mark’s  in mid December as they go West for Christmas.    Their large townhouse was elegantly decorated and it was so good to spend time with them; exchanging gifts, playing games and going to see The Voyage of the Dawn Treader. Then there is my annual birthday dinner; always a joyous time with friends from church who come to help me celebrate another year with a big dinner.   We also try to drive down to Bath and Haskinville, NY too.  That way we can touch base with JoAnne’s side of the family and also attend the big extended family Christmas celebration at my Mom’s house.  I think there were just shy of 30 people in Mom’s house this year.    There is always a program at that Christmas celebration, which JoAnne discovered is very Victorian.

Special movies with just the right touch

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One of the purposes of vacation is to be able to think about God’s work in our lives in a way we don’t think to do during regular work times.  So JoAnne and I try to take time to read Scripture.   On a driving intensive vacation like this one (we covered about 3100 miles in 2 weeks), sometimes she would read to me as I drove.  We also occasionally sang.   In the majesty of this area, the song, “How Great is Our God” was a natural choice.  Second was “This Land is Your Land, This Land Is My Land.”   In bear country they tell you to sing anyway, but it comes natural when you are followers of Jesus.   It wasn’t very long before we discovered a favorite Psalm too, one that that seemed to describe so well our experience with nature and with God on this trip.   We read it over and over—Psalm 104.   I have inserted subtitles that related to our travels.

Ps 104
Praise the Lord, O my soul.
For the sunny mountain heights

O Lord my God, you are very great;
you are clothed with splendor and majesty.
 2 He wraps himself in light as with a garment;
he stretches out the heavens like a tent
3 and lays the beams of his upper chambers on their waters.
He makes the clouds his chariot
and rides on the wings of the wind.
 4 He makes winds his messengers, flames of fire his servants.

For the great rivers and the seaside

5 He set the earth on its foundations;
it can never be moved. 6 You covered it with the deep as with a garment;
the waters stood above the mountains.
 7 But at your rebuke the waters fled,
at the sound of your thunder they took to flight;
8 they flowed over the mountains,
they went down into the valleys,
to the place you assigned for them.
9 You set a boundary they cannot cross;
never again will they cover the earth.

For all the mountain creatures and the birds

10 He makes springs pour water into the ravines;
it flows between the mountains.
11 They give water to all the beasts of the field;
the wild donkeys quench their thirst.
12 The birds of the air nest by the waters;
they sing among the branches.
13 He waters the mountains from his upper chambers;
the earth is satisfied by the fruit of his work.
14 He makes grass grow for the cattle,
and plants for man to cultivate — bringing forth food from the earth:
15 wine that gladdens the heart of man,
oil to make his face shine,
and bread that sustains his heart.
For the great evergreen forests
16 The trees of the Lord are well watered,
the cedars of Lebanon that he planted.
17 There the birds make their nests;
the stork has its home in the pine trees.
18 The high mountains belong to the wild goats;
the crags are a refuge for the coneys.

19 The moon marks off the seasons,
and the sun knows when to go down.
20 You bring darkness, it becomes night,
and all the beasts of the forest prowl.
21 The lions roar for their prey
and seek their food from God.
22 The sun rises, and they steal away;
they return and lie down in their dens.
23 Then man goes out to his work,
to his labor until evening.

24 How many are your works, O Lord!
In wisdom you made them all;
the earth is full of your creatures.
25 There is the sea, vast and spacious,
teeming with creatures beyond number — living things both large and small.
26 There the ships go to and fro,
and the leviathan, which you formed to frolic there.

27 These all look to you to give them their food at the proper time.
28 When you give it to them, they gather it up;
when you open your hand, they are satisfied with good things.
29 When you hide your face, they are terrified;
when you take away their breath, they die and return to the dust.

For the volcanic peaks
30 When you send your Spirit, they are created,
and you renew the face of the earth.

31 May the glory of the Lord endure forever;
may the Lord rejoice in his works — 
32 he who looks at the earth, and it trembles,
who touches the mountains, and they smoke.

Grand doxology

33 I will sing to the Lord all my life;
I will sing praise to my God as long as I live.
34 May my meditation be pleasing to him, as I rejoice in the Lord.
35 But may sinners vanish from the earth and the wicked be no more.

Praise the Lord, O my soul.
Praise the Lord.  NIV